Let me be honest—I didn’t just wake up one day, sell everything, and ride off into the sunset in an RV like some Pinterest-perfect wanderer. Nope. This was a slow burn. A whisper that turned into a roar.

I have struggled with depression for most of my life. After my divorce, it became even harder to see my worth, and toxic relationships only reinforced my feelings of unworthiness. I felt lost, but through God’s guidance, I found the strength to heal and rebuild my life.

There was a time when I didn’t even recognize the woman I had become. I had lost myself little by little—quietly giving parts of me away just to keep peace, to be loved, to survive. I was emotionally drained, spiritually empty, and mentally exhausted. Life felt like walking on eggshells, constantly second guessing myself, shrinking to fit into someone else’s comfort zone. That’s the reality of being in a relationship with a narcissist—confusing, depleting, and painful.

Leaving a narcissistic relationship isn’t just about walking away—it’s about healing, rediscovering yourself, and rebuilding your confidence. These relationships can leave you feeling confused, drained, and unsure of who you are. But with time, patience, and self-care, you can heal and move forward.